i don’t know what to do??

It sounds like you have a conflict with your family. Just because your family is famous doesn’t mean you can’t be with someone from a non-famous family. But in your case, you say that that is a problem. And even your boyfriend didn’t want you to tell anyone the two of you were dating. Before you get into another relationship with anyone, you should be clear in your own head whether you are willing to be honest with your family and date whoever you want as long as they are a good person, or whether you prefer to abide by your family’s wishes and date someone who fits in with your family. If you don’t get clear on this issue, you’re going to bring conflict to whatever relationship you have with anyone you date from a “regular” family.

So figure that out first.

Next, your boyfriend was hurt because you broke up with him due to class reasons. He wasn’t from the right class, and you succumbed to family pressure to break up with him. He didn’t do anything wrong. He was just “from the wrong side of the tracks.” He has every right to feel hurt and wonder if this will come up again with you if he goes back with you.

It sounds like you are lonely since the break up, and when he called, he stirred up old memories. But getting back together with him will lead you right back to family problems again. So don’t get back together with this guy now. Figure out what part your family plays in your personal life, and then be true to your decision.

Please understand I was not criticizing you for putting your family first. If that’s your decision, then that’s okay. You can also change your mind at some point, and then you can change it again. It’s very normal to have different feelings about parents and family throughout your life.

That said, if you love someone and want to be with them, and your family doesn’t approve, you have to choose: your boyfriend or your family. Making choices is a test of maturity.

You seem to be very clear that your family comes first, so unless you can find a boyfriend your family approves of, you’re always going to have conflict within yourself, and probably drama in your relationships. It sounds like the first part is happening now.

Remember, it doesn’t have to be black and white. You can go to your family and tell them how you feel about this man and what happened, and that you’ve chosen to put them first, but that you’re sad and lonely and wish that they can help you find someone appropriate to date, that you are crazy about, too! Your family doesn’t have to be just the arbiter of who is a good boyfriend for you or not — they can actually be a resource and help you find someone. Maybe even someone amazing. Try talking to someone in your family — if you can broach your parents on this subject, you may be surprised at what they reveal about their own pasts to you. It may bring you even closer than you are.