I don’t think you’re confused as much as disappointed that you’re not on the same page at the same time. Don’t fight with him over this. Just take a breather if you feel you’re going to argue. It sounds like the fighting over what appears to be control issues — what the relationship is, where it’s going — is threatening to destroy it. You’ll learn a lot, especially early in the relationship, if you don’t fight, and just listen. Accept the difference between the two of you and decide if you want to continue dating him or not. 😉
