Re: Texts from a friend

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jchapman
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Hi April. That’s initially what I felt about her texts, but she’s very hot and cold.

We did end up going on a date this past weekend. The date went really well. Lots of physical contact and she was even putting her hands under my shirt for a while. After the date, she was texting me with lots of hearts and emojis as she always does and she says “<3 u.” She also says “You should’ve grabbed my butt when you were giving me a hug goodbye. With both hands.” Now obviously these are all good signs and anyone reading this would be thinking how stupid I am for still being confused.

The following day though, she texts me to check in on me. I had to go out of town the day after our date and she asks if my flight had landed. We keep texting and I say “I love talking to you. And being close to you. I had an amazing night last night. I’ll be busy while I’m here, but I want you to know that I’m thinking of you.” Her response to this was just “You’re so sweet.” Doesn’t that seem like such a lacking response to my text? Am I being unreasonable for expecting something more than that? She seems so hot and cold when it comes to our interactions that it has me lost on how she truly feels.

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