There’s no easy way around a break up when kids are involved. My advice is that if you’ve truly broken up with him, then you need to keep your kids out of the game — otherwise, they end up being pawns that you and your ex-boyfriend use to manipulate each other, and the kids get further hurt. It will hurt when you break off their relationship with this guy — but less so than if you let it go, get complicated and end up breaking it off down the line. For instance, if he takes them out with himself and a new girlfriend (or different new girlfriends), it’ll look bitter on your part if you then tell the kids they can’t see him. I hope that helps.
