Got it. So, there’s a chance that the two of you may have more of a friend vibe going than a lustful or sexy feeling, after being together for 6 years, at your ages of 23 and 22, and both of you virgins. Try and create a romantic mood and focus on getting to know each others’ bodies, not just having intercourse. That will take the focus off of intercourse and allow you to get to know each other and slow things down.