AnonymousYour heading says it all! I think you have answered your own question. The way you’ve told the story this guy is too much, too soon. All of your examples wave a red flag: too intimate, too possessive, too in-your-face, too instrusive and too assuming-something-not-there. Every relationship has an ebb and flow. It’s important to honor the rhythm and some people need to work on that. Really, if you are not that into him, you owe him nothing but a polite (but firm) statement that you are unavailable the next time he asks you to do something. Your sister’s comments aside, you are the only one who can decide for yourself about how you feel. Isn’t that freeing?
Again: if you need to look in the mirror do so, and repeat after me: TRUST YOUR INSTINCTS (and let them be your guide).
