Well, this girlfriend of yours doesn’t seem to care as much about your feelings as she does her “friends”. Also, based upon what you’ve described, it sounds like she might be in love with this so-called “best friend” of hers.
My recommendation would be to put your foot down about how you want both you and your relationship to be treated. If you don’t stand up for yourself – she’s not going to change her behavior towards you. The only problem with this is the only thing you have to “negotiate” with is you. Meaning you have to be willing to walk away and say good-bye to her if she refuses to alter the behavior and start treating you and your relationship with the respect deserved.
On the other hand, if she does not value you enough to do that, you might want to question why you would be with someone who doesn’t value you or your feelings. 😉
