Your concerns are all valid. The concern I have is why are aren’t listening to your inner voice? Specifically, “i question why I am with him. I’ve met tons of guys at my university who are all determined and hard working like me, and I know I could be with someone like that.”
It is your job as a woman to look out for your best interests. If you don’t – who do you think is going to? Certainly not this guy!
Frankly, I don’t understand why you aren’t a bit more selfish? Why don’t you feel like you deserve better than this? If you don’t value yourself, you cannot expect that anyone else will.
Get my book, Think & Date Like A Man — and read it. Then, as GPM as accurately stated in their post, get out there and find a man who shares your values and priorities… someone who treats you like he values you.