You know, people can have all the advanced education in the world, and still be insecure. You can have doctorates and PhDs coming out of your ears, but still make bad decisions when it comes to men. If you don’t believe me, read the newspapers, magazines and tabloids, and you’ll see beautiful and successful women being dumped left and right. And you know why? They’re doing what you’re doing.
Your boyfriend is treating you like he just doesn’t care that much about you. It’s pretty clear. You’ve invested a lot in yourself in terms of education, church life, and probably other things, but you haven’t really made it a point to educate yourself about how to be the woman who gets the great guy.
So when you say it’s you and not him, you’re right. Any other woman with your assets would dump this guy, but you’re flunking the course on dating! Instead of buying textbooks, buy my books and read them.