At the time my girlfriend first saw him online she was legitimately online looking for a potential partner. Amazingly, *MY* boyfriend came up! We were both shocked! She has continued to monitor him from afar, even as she has listened to my renditions of our great evenings and wonderful weekends. At first I thought it must be someone else, but visiting her house, I’ve seen it with my own eyes. There is no question; he’s online with somewhat increasing frequency.
After a year of what I thought was a great relationship, I was ready to move to the next step. I now need to address this with him, and soon, but am hesitating because I hate to let go of all the good times we currently have. Unfortunately, the good times, which haven’t abated one bit, are now becoming overshadowed by this secret. My biggest question is how to best address it, and my second biggest question is how a guy can be as nice as he is and say as many “I love you’s” as he does, then spend all his off time looking at other women on line, as he is now? He’s not after my money, it just doesn’t make sense.
