I’m truly sorry about your situation, I know how badly it can hurt when you think things are going great and the other person has a different agenda. Just two weeks ago I found some messages on my boyfriend’s computer, Basically a message to a girl he was trying to date, said he liked, etc. This happened months ago, when we were still dating! He never actually went out with her, but just the fact that his mind wandered to other girls infuriated me. That and another message just killed me, and I left for the train station to go back home, I had it in my head that there was nothing he can say or do to explain himself-it was over. Since then we’ve had our talks, I’ve had my outbursts at him, he’s has his apologies. He explained that he was insecure about us and it got to the point where he had to pick with staying with me for a long time or being single again, etc. We are okay now, but after that day I know things won’t be the same, I’ll always be wary. I hope your situation works itself out where you will not be too badly hurt.
