Thanks for your reply,
It was good to hear another opinion beside my own limited perspective.
He denies it still, and I’m really over asking him about it because he will only deny it more firmly. The night I confronted him about it he drove an hour at 3:00am to come see me…I think he felt guilty about lying and tried to put my mind at ease by doing this outlandish thing coming to see me. I love him, and why should I be so mad about his past (that happened before we dated)? But why does he have to lie? I don’t know, but I’ll remain uneasy about it; It doesn’t warrant a breakup in my opinion, but should I put it to rest?/Just be cautious in the future with his stories? What would you do/other people do?