This isn’t that complicated. What you need to do is to start taking responsibility for yourself. For instance, don’t have unprotected sex. She got pregnant, but you were a part of that. Don’t drink and drive. You got a DUI, and you had a hand in that. And don’t sugar coat the fact that your girlfriend is dating other guys and isn’t interested in a commitment with you — at least not the kind you want. When you try and fool yourself, you start seeing complications at every turn. This is simple if you allow yourself to see it that way. That’s why my suggestion is to accept that she’s someone who plays the field and if you’re interested in dating her under those circumstances, then you should. But if you’re looking for a long-term, committed relationship, you should find someone who is interested in the same thing, with you! 😉
