[April Masini, your AskApril]

You’re looking for a way out of the commitment you’ve made. Listen to your instincts.

You don’t know this woman very well — seven weeks together in seven months with a one month separation, and not having seen her for the last three months altogether is [i]way[/i] too little time together to decide about a move in together, and moving in because you don’t have the financial resources to date long distance is a bad idea.

You jumped the gun with this move. Tell her it’s a mistake and you want to slow things down. You’re not paranoid — you’re just not honoring your gut feelings, so you’re looking for reasons that you may be dysfunctional. Well, sorry. You’re head is exactly on your shoulders — listen to yourself!!

Call off the move in.

Sorry.

I hope this helps. Let me know how it goes — and join me on Facebook. Here’s the link: [url][/url].