unfortunately, your situation sounds all too familiar. you should really take time to yourself and think about what you want. you can stay with him, hope things improve, and pray for the best- because you love him, and it’s all you want right now. or… you can break it off, move on and become independent again.- easier said than done i know. one thing i will tell you, i don’t know if you’re planning to go to the same college where he is or not…but if you do, do NOT spend your weekends with his friends. make your own in your dorm, classes, etc. this way, if things still don’t work and the fighting won’t stop, you have your own support system and ppl to hang out with once he’s gone. another option- you could try a break from each other. i don’t know if he’s a big player kind of guy and would just use the opportunity to hook up with other girls or not…but if he wouldn’t, taking time apart where you ignore him completely could make him realize how much it would suck to only have his friends and his beer without you. good luck!
