It doesn’t sound like you’ve ever dated. 😯 From what you describe he isn’t interested in a commitment to you. My advice is to move on.
As for your confusion. Read Think & Date Like A Man: [url]https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/think-and-date-like-a-man.html[/url]. It will help you understand how men and women date — and how to do so to win! Your confusion should be easily eliminated when you realize he hasn’t dated you or offered you any kind of commitment. When a man wants a relationship, he’ll act like it. 😉 From what you described he’s not really interested. Attraction isn’t commitment.
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