GPM
I’ll just make two more observations:
1. If the guy was trying to impress you, he would have dressed up appropriately for a first date, he wouldn’t have grabbed the remote from you, and he would have accepted anyone of your outting proposals. My conclusion is that either he didn’t care about impressing you (bad sign) or he lacks taste and manners (bad sign).
2. In a sense, I sort of agree with giving him a second change/second date (we all make mistakes, right?). But you have to realize a few things. First of all, he’ll probably interpret a second date as though you’re still interested in him. He’ll think you were satisfied with the first encounter and that you want to repeat the experience (that’s usually what a second date is). And at this point, after a second date, bailing out will become a lot harder. It’s a lot easier to say “no” right away, than to wait and do it later on. You’ll start feeling sorry for him, blah blah blah and you’ll find it hard to dump him…. which you’ll probably ending doing anyhow because you’re clearly not ont the same wave length. So if the second date goes bad, will you have the strength to tell him that you’re just not interested???? For me, that’s the important question you have to answer.
So basically, it’s your choice. But the longer you wait to say “no”, the harder it gets.
