So glad to hear you were able to do damage control and this woman was able to look past your mistake so that the two of you could have some dates together.
In general, it’s a great idea to stay away from complimenting a woman’s body until you know her better — for exactly this reason! Sometimes women are funny about their bodies, and have issues about weight, big breasts, small breasts, a big bottom, small bottom, big nose, small nose, height, shoe size, etc., that you couldn’t possibly know about on a first meeting. Some beautiful women feel objectified if you start commenting on their bodies before you get to know them. It’s not right or wrong — it’s just the way the playing field is laid.
Next time, you can show her you like her with your actions, by being attentive and having great manners, and by the glint in your eye and the smile you give her. But nothing says you like her, like asking her out for a special date.
As for your friend, slapping you for your comment was inappropriate. She could just as easily have turned and walked away.
But, the good news is that you both had the tools and maturity to work past a temporary bump in the road.
