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Re: Freshly dumped… can u help me?

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joe2424
Member #1,620

Hey Brownman,

Well, when you say schooling, do you mean college? I know what you’re going through as I’ve been there myself. I was dating a real knockout through college, and all of the sudden, one day she was confused. Being a 19 year old at the time, being bull headed, I let her go, and regreted it for quite a while. Some years later I ran into her on the internet, and she told me that with her schoolwork, and social life at the time, she just wasn’t ready for a committed relationship, and the feelings she had for me scared her. She knew she would be moving, wasn’t sure if I would go with her, and she was insecure about the future. Plus, college was party time for her when she wasn’t studying, and that had something to do with it also. She just didn’t have the time. If you like this girl then follow your gut. Not to freak you out, but there is not another guy involved is there? Hopefully she’ll come around, and realize what she gave up. You sound like a good guy, and I firmly believe that if it’s meant to be, then that’s what’s going to happen. Not sure if I gave you any great advice, I just wanted you to know you’re not alone!

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