youngbuck01So I received a response from April regarding my predicament. If you haven’t already read her post, she basically said its ok for me to see my friend’s mom as long as I air out this situation with my friend first and if he’s cool then its up to me to pursue it. If its not something he would be in favor of ( which is what I think his opinion would be), then it would probably be in the best interest of our friendship for me to not hang out so often at his mom’s place. The problem with me avoiding my friend’s mom though, is that she has my cell number and I’m sure that she would eventually try to contact me and ask why I wasn’t coming around her place. Guess either way I choose someone is not going to be happy with me… Thats life though right, can’t make everyone happy all the time…
And Kai is right, I’m certainly not interested in getting into a serious relationship with her (whether thats her thinking or not), I’m just interested in the physical/sexual aspect of getting together with her.
So I think what I’m going to do is, the next time I plan to hang out with my friend, I will arrange for us to meet at a neutral place (not his mom’s place) and just tell him that I think his mom has been flirting with me and so on and that I do find her to be attractive and just see what his reaction is to this and ask what would be OK with him regarding his mom and I.
