1. Stop throwing yourself at this guy who’s made it clear he doesn’t want to date you or invest much in a relationship with you.
2. Stop hanging out with this guy because he’s an ex-boyfriend. You shouldn’t hang out with ex-boyfriends.
3. Start reading Think & Date Like A Man, [url]https://www.askapril.com/dating-advice-books.html
This guy shouldn’t be in your life — that will solve a lot of your problems that you’re projecting on him.
I hope that helps. Let me know how things go — and please read the book.