[April Masini, your AskApril]

Sometimes talking isn’t the solution. It seems like if you just start to talk about this subject, she’s going to tense up, knowing what you’re going to say and want, and knowing her own position on things.

Instead, take a different approach. See if you can seduce her instead of analyzing her. I’ve written a book called Romantic Date Ideas that lay out dates that you can create that are designed to get her in the mood. For women, wanting to have sex is a different process than for men, and setting the scene and not pressuring her, but at the same time, making her feel desirable, are all part of what you can do to enhance her process. Check out the book — you can get it at this link: [url]https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/romantic-date-ideas.html[/url].

And let me know how things go. I hope this helps!

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