Here’s what you should do:
1. Move out of the house. You’re 19 years old and you’re having too many family conflicts to be living at home.
2. Live on your own or with roommates. Be single.
3. If your boyfriend breaks up with you because you won’t move in with him, after only seven months of dating, then let him. Anyone who puts that kind of pressure on you isn’t looking out for your best interests.
4. If your family says they are going to “beat you up” if you move in with your boyfriend, you need to distance yourself from them, by moving out. That’s not a healthy thing for parents or relatives (or anyone) to say.
Time for you to grow up and take some steps towards being your own person. 😉