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Flower14
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Thank you. That I understand. I admit my mistakes. And understand them. The problem is idk what to do. How to do it ? My family disapproves of my relationship they feel I have disrespected the house which is true. And they don’t like the age difference. It’s 13 years. And they feel I’m going to ruin my life. I’m ready to settle. They said if I move out with him. They will never talk to me again. I won’t be invited. They’ll hate me forever. They will go to his house n beat me up. Because they hate him and they think I’m going to ruin my life and be unhappy and they said more. And I love him and I do want to move in. And I don’t want to loose him. And he’s been through so much with my family and me. He said if I don’t move in. He will leave me. We been together 7 months. But I don’t want to make my family unhappy N never talk to them again. I’m in the middle it’s the hardest decision of my life. I love them both. And I want to make them both happy. But I don’t want to loose him. And we promised to live with each other. Before all the problems. It was so clear to move in. But he says I’m a coward for not standing up to my family. And his ex went through the same problem. And she sacrificed. A lot of money and family problems. She’s his age too. She sacrificed more. And he said that means she loved him more. And was not a coward. But I am. Idk what to do. I love him so much. But family is going to hate me. And my father is gonna go back to our country. We never really lived together this is his first time here I haven’t lived with him since I was seven and I’m 19. N if he leaves my mom is going to be alone. I live in my cousins house. N they hate me for being with him. So idk what to decide I’m in the middle

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