in my opinion: i think you should see a doctor and get tested; not rely on a home test to be 100% accurate. that may be why you’re a little paranoid. of course you feel guilty. what you did was wrong. being drunk is no excuse because we really do know what we’re doing. to tell her what you did is going to hurt her tremendously and she may or may not find her way back to trusting you. if you will not be able to live with yourself without telling her then you should annul your marriage. she deserves someone who will be faithful even if tested (as you were). otherwise you should forgive yourself and live everyday ensuring your wife is happy. you owe her that much. i’m curious what April’s opinion is – as to whether or not you should tell your now wife (correct? you’re married now?).
katdawg