[April Masini, your AskApril]

You know, sometimes facing your fears is the scariest thing in the world, but it’s also what will give you the most confidence when you realize that that fear is not going to kill you and in fact, my even give you the biggest confidence in the world.

I understand completely that your feeling you have no control over something you want so much is frightening, but now you will truly get to see whether or not this woman is genuinely yours. If she moves back in October, and then the two of you can work the long distance relationship, and you then realize that you are going to have to be the one to move, you will have those [u]choices[/u].

Remember that you are not a victim in any of this. [i]You can’t always get what you want[/i] — but Mick Jagger’s song was a big hit because it resonated the truth: [i]You’ll find sometimes that you get what you need.[/i] 😉

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