Ngimwa
accident 2 years ago. This mishap left
me in a wheelchair(Become a
paraplegic). During the first year after
my accident got a girlfriend and she’s
awesome. We have had a few bumps in the road but we always find a way to deal like every other relationship.
So I recently joined a sexual rehabilitation
thing.. Before jumping into it my doctor asked me to read about to get a rough idea then we would discuss.. I found this site and I forwarded the site to my
girlfriend (not sure that was a good
Idea but figured she should know)…
After she read it….
She was acting a bit funny so I asked her to tell me what she thinks.. She started crying and she said she felt selfish cause she thinking about herself, at one point she wanted a break, she said that she was okay sacrificing everything else but she never thought she’d have to do the same about kids but she felt bad and wished we could go back to before I feel in love with her and we won’t be
able to do what normal couples do…
then she just said that it’s okay… She’s didn’t wanna break and she can’t leave
cause is not fair to me… Then she said people find love very few times and
she loves me and she’s happy….
(Sorry if the conversation isn’t clear she was crying so couldnt hear everything and didn’t want to interrupt)…..
And it’s like she okay now but I don’t know if she’s happy… I love her and I
never believed in that if you love her
set her free but right now is making a
bit of sense. I know she loves kids and she wants to have some of her own. But I can try and get better but it’s not in my hands.. I want her to be happy and she’s been telling me that she is but I would hate for her to feel trapped. I would hate if she ends up unhappy in the long run. I don’t know what to do?
