I don’t think there is any hope of you’re getting him back now. The mistakes you made are too big and too recent for him to think you’ve changed. It’s okay for you to send him a paper birthday card, but I don’t think you should text him or hold out hope right now.
Learn from your mistakes and take that knowledge with you to the next relationship you have. Better yet, read Think & Date Like A Man (NOW!!), [url]https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/think-and-date-like-a-man.html[/url], so you don’t make any more mistakes that may cost you a great guy! You can also get the book on Amazon.com or on the website for Barnes & Noble.
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