[April Masini, your AskApril]

First of all, if he’s anxious in bed because he’s afraid of getting you pregnant, you need to start using birth control (which you should have been all along! 😕 ). This is a very real fear for a man (and for a woman), so if he thinks you’re not using birth control and he’s not using birth control and he doesn’t want you to get pregnant, the math adds up to a bad sex life! So see if that helps.

If not, you need to jump start your sex life. This is easy to do if you read my book, Romantic Date Ideas. The book will show and tell you how get the X back in your sex life — which it sounds like you could really use! There are dates at all price points, in the house, out of the house — you name it, it’s in there. Here’s the link where you can download the book automatically and start reading (and dating) tonight!! [url]https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/romantic-date-ideas.html[/url].

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