you should stick to your guns. i’m now 36 and i’m still single. i was married to the wrong man for 9 years and got married at 27 and THAT was too young – and you’re how old? i have so many regrets, but i know i can’t go back and change anything. what i realize now at my age is that i should have saved something as sacred as sex for marriage. it’s hard, very hard. as i’m turning to religion to help me through life i am learning as i go. i’m in the same situation as yourself – but at 36. wow! i’m realizing i don’t want sex unless it is in a loving committed relationship and i’ve learned that that means marriage. my experience at 19, when i thought i was in love and wanted to do whatever it took to keep a “boy”, i found myself pregnant. unfortunately i took a life. BIGGEST regret of my life and now that it is very difficult for me to get pregnant – which is part of why i let my ex husband go – i get angry (at times). do you think at your age you’re ready for consequences should your actions create a human life? is HE ready …that should be the question? there’s a whole lot of life ahead of you and as my father once told me there are a MILLION men on this EARTH….is this one really worth it and is everything you WANT in a man? first off…he’s not respecting you and what you’ve expressed. so…is this rape…since your no does not mean no to him?
katdawg
