You seem to have some real emotional problems. A serial cheater, lying, breaking up another family, deceiving another person, and putting them at risk for disease — just for starters. Assuming that the married man has any redeeming qualities is questionable; clearly if you start a relationship cheating it will not change. The most important thing in society is acting responsibly to your children and partner, he sounds like a “roided out” loser. You should straighten yourself out first then worry about a relationship. I had a similar experience with a loser like you and you kind of women will not take any advice unless it aligns with what you want to hear. I should have put all of her crap out on the street too.
