Cathy,
Let me see if I understand your post. For over twenty years, you have forsaken the nice guys in favor of the jerks. Suddenly, at 46 years of age, you have seen the light. So now, you claim “…to speak out for these guys!” Not only that, but you advise nice guys to continue being nice guys? Do you realize that doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result is insanity?
Yes, you have experienced life. You may even be a better person for it for all I know. One thing I do know is that all of those nice guys that you (and women like you) so cavalierly left in the dust ([i]your words[/i]) have also experienced life and have been changed by it. Unfortunately for women like you, these guys realized that they had to stop being nice guys and start being the type of guys that women actually want.
A while back, I came across a post that answered the question “What Happened to All the Nice Guys?” far better than I could. The URL is: [url]https://www.craigslist.org/about/best/lax/483318927.html[/url]. Yes, I know it’s Craigslist but it answers the question as well as anything ever written.
Good luck finding a nice guy Cathy. I’m sorry to have to tell you this, but you’ll need it.
Walter
