ok that makes sense, so you’re saying I haven’t won her over YET???? The question now is based on how she treats me do you think I potentially could win her over???? Because the signs are there that she does care about me and has feelings for me. She was engaged last yr, and the fiance cheated – don’t you think that has some impact on her view on serious relationships? Which could also explain in part why she is taking things VERY slowly? She did invite me to come to her family cottage – spend 5 days w/ her, and while I’m there I will be meeting most of her family. I’m going up to the cottage with her Aug 17-22nd. Women do not typically introduce men to their family unless they see potential for a relationship, would you agree?
She’s been seeing me more and more as time goes, we went from once a week to 2-3, now we are seeing each other about 4x/wk. We laugh, we do everyday things that any couple would do, sexual chemistry is very strong between us. How long should I wait before I confront her and basically say “what are we doing??” I’m thinking if this continues to 6 months and she still is not official with me, or still has her match.com profile active, I will have to basically call her out on it and tell her how this is making me feel.
