Honestly, I don’t think you should do a thing, not one thing (related to this guy). He has told you he is not ready for a relationship and you should take him at his word. More, you need to start dating other men! If he likes you for more than a friend he will ask you out — especially if he thinks there’s a chance he’s going to lose you to someone else.
Men are competitive by nature, and they want to compete to win. They’re hunters. It’s in their DNA. To deny that fact is to deny who men really are. If you take away the opportunity for this guy to hunt you and win you – by initiating a relationship with him in anyway – be that by asking him out, by calling him or by pursuing him – you are also taking away the opportunity for him to be the hunter he is. [b]When women make themselves too available by calling, e-mailing, showing up everywhere she knows he’ll be — it’s too easy.
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