AskApril MasiniNow, you’re not going to like my advice, but you asked for it, so I’m going to tell you the truth.
This man’s behavior is (and has been) telling you all you need to know…. Be that in his pursuit of you (or lack thereof), his affection towards you (or lack thereof), or his desire to do things with and for you (or lack thereof).
You have been aggressively pursing this man, he has not been pursing you. You said, “I’m always the one who has to call him or text him. I have to ask him to hang out.”
As harsh as this is going to sound, what else do you need to know? If he was interested in a relationship with you — he would be pursuing you… he’s not.
Further, now he’s asking you “what he has to do for me to break up with him.” In other words, what does he have to do to make you show some self respect and stop chasing him.
And what do you do? You “beg him in a text for him to pick up”. Frankly, you look desperate and pathetic. Your behavior is the polar opposite of everything it needs to be to interest a man in a relationship.
What should you do? Simple. STOP!
Stop calling him, stop texting him — stop everything — IMMEDIATELY.
If he is interested in a relationship with you he will come after you and he will ask you on a date. If he doesn’t, he was never interested in the first place.
I find so many women want to make excuses for why a man doesn’t email, doesn’t call, doesn’t pursue them, etc. when the answer is very simple. He’s doesn’t do it because he’s not interested enough to do so. If he was — Trust Me — he would.
I’m sorry if this hurts your feelings, but I honestly believe it’s what you need to hear.
If you don’t start acting like a women with some self respect, you will never be treated with respect. Wake up!
I strongly recommend that you read my book, Think & Date Like A Man — read it, and then adjust your thinking and your behavior accordingly…
I wish you all the best.
