i think you’ll just have to decide if this is a deal breaker for you. it was for me with my ex-boyfriend. he tends to have more female friends than male friends and thought it was appropriate to go out of town with this one in particular and go to the movies and dinner with her on a friday night. i expressed i was not comfortable with that and the response i got was that we weren’t even “together” yet so i had no right to be upset. well, lesson learned on my part – just because you have sex doesn’t mean there’s a full commitment to one another. we split up; it was a deal breaker for me. if you are a like me and just wants to have your feelings considered (and especially if she is your fiance….meaning you plan to spend the rest of your life with person….)you’ll have to consider is this the type of person you want to marry? someone who isn’t going to consider your feelings and put someone else before you? let no man turn us under. well…..i think she is letting someone do that. good luck to you! oh, two months later that ex contacted me again and well…..it’s a different story for me now. sigh…i just can’t seem to get a commitment. here’s a saying: you “get” what you “tolerate”.
