it doesnt seem like shes giving in this relationship. why are you giving her money if you dont live with her? BIG no-no. end it. see what she does. it can change a selfish girl if she does love you. stop giving her money. my advice honestly this doesnt sound like a healthy relationship. id just end it. invest your money into you & then later when the right person comes along the two of you would share eachothers incomes like your supposed to when your married or living togehter, etc. not like your doing. good luck. dump her.
