It seems as if you have a rather sweet and innocent approach to being with men and that both of you are not particualrly experienced in developing a relationship. This is not all bad. Experience does not necesssarily mean success. But I think it is true that a man has to take the lead in the relationship .He must take the initiative to get to know you. If I thought he were really shy, I might tell him that I like his company and would like to get to know him better but that I don’t pursue men, that they pursue me. So it is not overly heavy. You made your interest in him clear. He can take the ball and go with it or not. If he can’t take that bait, well, then, I think he is not able to take any bait. You do not need to be in the business of hand holding a man to show him how to court you. Best of luck. You seem like a nice person.
