I always find this to be an interesting topic… So I felt compelled to reply to this one. This concept- “nice guys finish last” happens to be just one of the many things that don’t always make perfect sense and for some people it feels downright backwards. You’re taught from birth to do good to others and to treat people the way you want to be treated. So why on Earth are women more attracted to men who don’t always play nice?! Well, it’s called human nature. Humans (notice I say Humans, not women… it absolutely goes both ways) get thrill from hunt and challenge. When something is given to you too easy- A) The value is diminished B) The excitement,passion if you will is just not there. Men are just as thrill thirsty as women are. In fact you can pose the same question for men.. “Why do men love Bitches?!” As complex as you would think the answer to that question might be,it’s actually very simple. Both men and women seek a partner that makes them feel alive, vibrant..passion! Nothing is more alive than a little bit of a challenge.
However I would like to clarify, when we say nice guy this does not mean that if you don’t have a criminal record of some sort or beat up on women that you just won’t cut it! To me the difference is confidence. A man who knows his self-worth, knows what he wants and how to get it. He won’t get walked on by a women because he knows what he has to offer and that he could be with a women who has the same offer.
I’d bet you look for some of the same qualites in a woman…
Just my 2cents..
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