I normally don’t even glance at the
articles printed throughout the internet; but
after the eye catching title “Why nice Guys
Finish Last”, i had to send a note of thanks.
I recently lost not only a wonderful woman in a
relationship, but we were long time friends before
that. Not to use this as an excuse, both of us had
very different and difficult issues in our
respective lives that required major energy,
placing priority over growing our relationship.
How we became involved are the things one would
read in a novel; however, over time, she had a
change of heart. While I was very upset and
confused by it all, your article brought piercing
perspective to why things went wrong.
I write this feeling both embarrassed and humbled
by sharing this with you; but in a bizarre way, a
sense of understanding has finally been brought to
this personal and painful of situations. I just
wanted to thank you for writing this article and
helping me see something I needed to see. All the
best with your endeavours, jd
