Hi Eve.
You seem like a pretty intelligent women, thus I am certain you already know what I am going to tell you. And that’s why you feel like an idiot…
Stop listening to what he “says” — be that in a text message or otherwise — and base all judgements on what he does. This guy’s behavior has already told you all you need to know. You’ve been pursuing this guy, he has NOT been pursuing a relationship (outside of the “gotta do me” booty call) with you. Stop wasting your time, do not call or text him again — and move on! If he is interested in you he will come after you, he will ask you on a date and he will treat you like someone he wants a relationship with. If he doesn’t — he doesn’t. Period.
Please read the below two columns Eve… They are perfect for your situation.
