I am not in love with him. He is a friend. Please don’t put MALICE into our friendship as if your implying that I’m getting involved with their dilemma just to break them apart. He’s the same age as my nephew. Their is a difference between telling people what to do, and him asking for my perspective on this matter. He just wanted to know if I were in his place, that decision, if he finally decides what to do, will be from his choice. Just as I try to value your opinion which I may, or may not consider to follow. The rest is up to me. However, this is not an issue of free will, it’s about the CHOICES we make in life.