I don’t think visiting her at college is stupid or dumb as long as you keep in mind that you can’t have a dating relationship with her because of the distance, and that she is someone who only wants what she wants when she wants it — and has often blown you off when you make plans with her. In other words, you may have a fun weekend with her, but don’t look for a long term relationship with this woman.
I hope that helps. Let me know how it goes — and you should buy my book called Date Out of Your League, that I wrote for men who want to win with women. You won’t have to be nervous about making a mistake if you read this and follow the tips and advice in it. Here’s the link to get it: [url]https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/date-out-of-your-league.html[/url].
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