Be careful. I think there’s a good chance that Josh wants you now because he doesn’t have you. Dan has proven that he’s a good man and a good father. Before you throw him away I’d make very sure that Josh is really going to be there for the long haul. I also think that there’s an element of Romeo and Juliet fantasy involved in your “love” for Josh. No relationship is perfect and while the grass may look greener on the other side of the fence — it may only be an illusion.