# 1 … Yes, your feelings are valid.
# 2 … Do not — ever — let anyone push or pressure you into getting married! Or into having children for that matter….
If you have questions about whether or not she’s the right one — wait. If you are wondering whether of not the two of you are compatible — wait. Always listen to your instincts, they are there for a reason. People tend to make the biggest mistakes when they do not trust that little voice inside them.
Slow down and take your time before taking the next step. You are learning a lot about relationships — about your girlfriend — and about yourself. You are very young and you have your whole life ahead of you.
Frankly, at 18 and 19 you are both much, much too young to be thinking about getting married.
