I HAVE talked with him. Many many times and nothing ever changes. And a better job? He doesn’t have ANY job right now or since I have met him. It has been 15 months and there has been no change. All we do is stay home and watch movies and eating out consists of Taco Bell. And even then most of the time I foot the bil cuz he has absolutely no cash. I mean, we are 40 years old here.. it isn’t like we are just starting out after high school or something….