Your instincts are absolutely correct. You’re definitely too comfortable with each other too soon. Your job as the woman in the relationship is to create the sense of urgency that you’re wanting from him. The way to do this is to give him something to chase. If you let him catch you too soon and too often, where’ s the urgency going to come from? You’ll have killed it.
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The balancing act for you is to pull back without setting up alarm bells for him that there’s something wrong in the relationship. Be careful not to get angry at him. What you should do is make yourself seem desirable and worth his chasing after. Don’t be so available. But at the same time, flirt with him. Make him want you enough to pursue you. He should feel like a real man when he gets the prize, which is you! And the only way he’s going to feel that way is if you give him something worth winning — and that would be you and your attentions.
