[April Masini, your AskApril]

You’re looking for excuses not to do the work. 😕 If you don’t take care of your problems and address your fears, you will lose him — [i]and any other worthy guy who comes along[/i]. 🙁 You can’t be in a relationship until you are ready to be in a relationship, and you’re not ready.

I understand you’re afraid of destitution, but paralysis is not the answer. Address your fears and then take action. You have to do the work to improve your life — and your relationships. Don’t keep making excuses or blaming other people for what YOU need to do in YOUR own life!

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