I can kinda relate to what you are experiencing. I’ve only been with my boyfriend for four months and he sometimes makes comments about getting himself a red head, with freckles and green eyes. His ex was white and I am far from his discription I am Hispanic, with brown hair and brown eyes. So when he makes that comment it hurts my feelings and makes me question if he is serious about me. I feel that if he is more attracted to that description then why is he with me and what made him become attracted to me? It is never right for anyone to make their partner question or doubt their relationship. Now, after hearing him make that comment more than once I am worried that if he does find that girl with that description he is going to leave me. Which if that is what he wanted to begin with he should have never got involved with me. As for your boyfriend forgetting your birthday more than once is another issue. I know that there is no excuses for that. If it was turned around on him and you forgot his birthday im pretty sure he wouldnt appreciate it . The best advice I can give to you is to talk to him about how it makes you feel that he forgot your birthday and how you feel about him likeing asian women. If he doesnt understand your feelings about the subjects and apologize for disregarding your feelings by acting that way you are better off without him. Also, I believe that you shouldnt stand by and let him talk to other women online it is not healthy for any relationship and it is not being respectful to you and your feelings. You have a right to protect your feelings and say something to him when you feel his behavior is inappropriate. I hope my advice helps you a little and good luck with everything.
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