[quote=”quoth_the_raven”]she met up with her ex (that before me she had been borderline obsessed with) over Easter but when I asked her about it she claimed she hadn’t seen him since before Christmas. I know she’s lying because my friends were in the same pub and saw them together![/quote]
How do you react if she tell you something significant? Some people can’t handle the truth, so this gives others to lie. May be she’s afraid of your reaction since she’s meeting up with a former boyfriend.
[quote]The thing is, nothing happened. They didn’t act like a couple, they didn’t kiss or cuddle… so why bother hiding it? [/quote]
One thing I know is that if you’ve got something to hide, why flaunt it?
I think you should bring up this topics again but before you do, try to reassure her that you won’t get angry emotions cloud your judgment. Then tell her that a friend of yours saw her with her ex. Maybe she will be able to tell you why.
You are right by saying that trust isn’t demanded, it is earned. If you doubt her explanation again, then keep us posted of your progress.
